Why I support gay marriage

Because I have sat in a court room as a judge orders an adotpin of three kids who have lived with a gay couple and only one of those people could be the legal parent. Which means if the other parent dies those kids won't get benifits. It means that although the couple has been raising the kids together as a family at the end of the day only one parent has the right to make medical decisions for the kids.

I feel as though millions were wasted to fight this losing battle and that money that churches and states spent could have gone to helping families be stronger.

I beleive that divorce, abuse and children born outside of marriage does far more to destroy "traditional marriage" then gay marriage ever could.

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