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Trips Facebook and the Church

In August Lee and I and the kids are going on a trip of a lifetime.  I am seriously overwhelmed about the whole thing.  This trip will change the rest of our lives.  The kids are excited and that is how I want them to be.  But I know that this trip will be the best thing we can do.  We have been planning this for years.  We got the taxes to our accountant and I am hoping in the next few weeks we can file.  It won't be as big as last year which means we probably will not be able to pay off any major debt.
Oh well there is always next year :)   But the money should be able to finance the trip. 

I find myself getting more and more frustrated with facebook.  I would close down my account but it is a good way to stay in contact with friends so maybe I should just do some spring cleaning and get rid of people who bring me the most frustration.  But I am sure that would cause some contention in my personal life. 

Lee and I had a conversation and it ended with him saying it didn't matter and me saying but it could matter. :)  That is how many of our conversations go.

I have so many questions lately about the church that I am not sure where to turn.  I feel like the list is getting longer and longer.  Maybe my questions are more about life in general.  Most of my friends (okay all) are not LDS. I wonder why...  Maybe because they are the ones who were most accepting of me.  And I won't ask family.  So here I sit pondering the great mysteries.   

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When you know somebody is having a hard time in their marriage.  Pull them closer.  Ask to take the kids for a weekend.  Bring them dinner.  Reach out to them.  Ask them how they are doing.   Don't insist on visiting or having them visit you.  Know that their world feels like it is falling apart and it is taking every bit of energy to put on a good face for the kids and to work and run a household.  And it is has to be done while they continue to reside with somebody who they are struggling to have the most basic of conversation with.