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Ignored and Defeated

Tonight I am feeling both and I am feeling overwhelmed.  It isn't one thing it was a million different things although there was one thing that seemed to break the camels back so to speak.  There were several situations where people just flat out ignored what I was saying.  I am hurt and drained.  Both are linked back to Andrew being diagnosed with hand foot and mouth disease.  I am not sure I even agreed
with it because orginally I was told by a different medical professional it was something else.  Andres symptoms were so mild. Nobody else has shown symptoms and we are way past the incubation period.  But nobody wanted to hear my information.  In one situation it was just totally ignore and then she said something on Facebook.
Ugggg don't ignore me when I send you a text and call you and then act all concerned in public.

There are other things such as needing information on the cultural celebration and PTO stuff where I was just ignored.  Two weeks before a huge event and you can't tell me what my child needs to be wearing or a time frame. Wishing I could just hide away from people for the next few days but that isn't likely.

Tomorrow is a new day for sure.  I know the anniversaries of my dad's death and Halloween and traveling and company has put me on edge.  But I am still alive.

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