The Six of Us

Truth Tuesday Take Three I enjoy it when Lee leaves town for a night. I get to watch what ever I want and I usually get some house cleaning done. There is no way I am going to lose ten pounds this month.  Okay well there is a way but no healthy ways. I love that I have a girly girl.  No I did not make her that way.  She came that way. If I could afford it I would have a house cleaner. I did something that I felt strongly about doing but now I am questioning how this will all ended up.  It is so exhausting. I did five batches of laundry today.  Folded and put away.  Yup I am cool.

Truth Tuesday #2 I am totally stressing my research class to the point I made myself physically ill. I am struggling with my kids getting older and loving it at the same time. It is really hard for me to admit the truth these days. My daughter was way too spoiled on her birthday. I can only do housework in the morning.  If I wait until the afternoon nothing gets done. I love shopping.  Even window shopping.  Although I rarely have the money to buy very much.  

I was going to make a list of all my goals for March but they haven't changed much.  I need to get healthier which I have started but I am still not as good at as I should be be.  I can tell a big difference on the days I drink enough water and the days I don't.  I am eating more fruit and veggies at home but I don't eat healthy enough at work.   That will change.  Plus I need to stick to a budget. Well the whole family does.  We got our taxes done and are waiting for the refund.  That means that we will be able to afford to go to Cali in July.  The question is now do we fly or drive. I am still leaning towards driving.  So booking the condo and the rental car is on my list for March.  Also it looks like we should be able to pay off our final credit card in the next few months.  Well probably closer to May.  We are still getting rid of stuff and Lee now said I could just give it to good will and now I am thinking we will...

So my random post for this evening is about secrets.  I am not sure why people feel the need to tell me things that I then can't tell anybody else although they will all find out eventually.  At work last year I found out some information that I wasn't able to pass along because of my job.  People that I thought I knew turns out I didn't. Although the information became public record I doubt most people know what happened but the stress of not being able to say anything when people talked was incredible. Back to the secret that somebody told me a while back although I know that after a while everybody will find out the secret and I will then not feel so overwhelmed that I might slip and say something that I shouldn't have said.  The funny thing is I am not even sure why this person thinks this needs to be a secret but they do and I respect that.  There are other things that I know that will probably never come to light and nor do they need to.   I hav...